Hey guys i’ts been a while! I know the title probably has you wondering what I’m about to write about but I wanted to fill you all in on some other stuff that’s happened first!
A couple of weeks ago we went to the Milton outlets. All was good and fun until we didn’t check the weather. I wore a light shirt and lighter coat because London was nice and sunny, and Milton? It was snowing and windy. So you can imagine I didn’t have too much fun walking outside in that weather. On the way back though we did see a car heavily on fire on the side of the road, and as we passed it I could feel the heat radiating off the car so that helped. All in all though the outlets were nice but there wasn’t any amazing sales I found that made me buy anything.
Another thing coming up is my wisdom teeth surgery, May 10 *cries*. I am happy though to be getting it over with. My surgeon seems really thorough and definitely like he knows what he’s doing so I can’t complain. He did look over my X-rays and point out that my jaw locking isn’t from the wisdom teeth, but from clenching my teeth in my sleep, and my retainer isn’t enough protection. I was really happy with my dentist for not telling me that when he took x-rays 8 months ago, or gee I don’t know when I was in his office this month? Really nice. Another thing that he pointed out from my x-ray that was even obvious to me was that I have a deviated septum. So now I know why I have all these breathing issues. And it’s not a tiny thing you can really see it in those x-rays. So I guess I should thank my dentist again for not telling me twice over because its gotten worse. Look at all these things I get to look into now!
In school this week we got to do two new things: full body massages and extractions! The body massage was very relaxing to be honest and I don’t mind doing it. Our teacher was great too and just made us laugh about the idea of touching people’s butt muscles so it was way less awkward then it could have been. After going to the gym I’m ready for another one! Extractions are also fun to perform, but to get? I wasn’t a fan. Now this is where that deviated septum comes in. The teacher was so excited to extract all the gunk from my nose that she really got into it, which was cute to see her so excited. However, she’s holding my nose back and pushing and my one nostril is smaller than the other so guess who couldn’t breathe? Me. I had water running down from my eyes and she pushed right through. I think next time I’m going to make sure that doesn’t happen. On the plus side though my pores are so soft and empty and it feels great.
Last thing I want to talk about before getting to the topic from the title is our road trip to Stratford yesterday. We for sure have to go back when it isn’t cold and when things are open. Who closes stuff down at 4pm on a Saturday?? Stratford, apparently. We did drive around the city and get a snack so it was a nice way to take in the sights and I’m excited to go back. I drove home too and I think it was the first drive my mom wasn’t backseat driving the whole time or holding onto the door like she’s about to die. Which she never is. I’m also 99% sure I’m more confident at driving than she is too.
So now the thing that has been bothering me. Common sense would tell anyone that if a stranger online messages you, that’s a red flag. And common sense also tells you that you don’t know who is on the other side of the screen. So I wonder to myself why random men on the internet think it’s a cool thing to message random girls with creepy messages and expect these girls to fall in love with them after 2 minutes of messaging?? Because it’s not, and they need to stop.
Now that my account is at 867 followers, this seems to be a daily occurrence, these weird men messaging me. Most of them live halfway across the world, and over half can’t speak English or just don’t care about grammar. Before it used to not be every day and they’d be easy enough to get rid of, I’d say no and they go away. Then a few would keep sending innocent enough messages but I’d have to block them. Now it just feels like a video game, the more I get rid of the worse and creepier they become! I’ll tell you about a few different stories that just made my jaw drop.
First off, this old guy who began the conversation with “Hey beautiful girl.” So already I’m going on ready to vomit, like this guy could be my grandpa. So I always ask these people if I can help them with anything business related, because I’m not about to turn down free makeup. But generally I already know what these guys want. So after not responding this guy tries to VIDEO CHAT me. Thankfully my phone was turned over so I didn’t even see the attempt until after but I was shocked! In no way is it a good idea to video chat a total stranger. I’d never had that happen before so that was a new low. I took that guy right off my page.
Then I had one who got offended by the fact I was straight with him. He sent me a couple hello messages nothing weird yet, then the bomb, “you’re cute.” So I ask, anything I can do for you? I feel like that’s a good neutral question to figure out if they’re a creep or just using the wrong PR method. This guy says “well sorry for the inconvenience, bye.” and sends a sulking emoji that he unsent a second later. Because yea if you leave it does not bother me you were a creep to begin with.
If I thought that was bad I had way more coming. Yesterday I got a dude who I asked if I could help him business-wise after he sent me the “You’re cute” message and he said no. Case closed right? Wrong. Then he has the nerve to ask me, “Can I make a video call?” So I say no, obviously. Case closed again? Oh I wish. This guy sends a crying emoji and asks why. Well I had no problem telling him he’s a stranger. He comes back at me with the idea that this video call is for business because I need to help him learn English. When I tell him I’m not a teacher he lets me know I have no respect for him…. then sends me a picture of him, like that’s going to change anything? Because he’s ugly, first of all; and still a stranger!!! So I sent him a nice worded message about how he isn’t respecting me by trying to force me to call, and that since he isn’t here for business, he needs to stop. Can you guess what I did next? Blocked him.
This last story is my personal favourite because it was the one that made my jaw drop the hardest. A real gem. After asking this guy if there’s any business I can help him with, he actually says yes and asks how to increase followers and learn English. So after I answer those questions he says “you’re cute and sweet.” So I ignore and put my phone down. So when I pick up my phone again it’s only been about 15 mins since he first messaged, and there’s like 6 messages waiting for me. “You’re sweet,” “You’re cute,” “I love you *insert 10 emojis*,” Two video chat notifications, “I want a relationship to get to know you.” AND a pic of him he unsent two seconds later. So um who says I LOVE YOU to someone that quick?? What a CREEP! So I ignored that until I went to bed, and in my exhaustion I sent “I’m not interested” and forgot to block him. This morning dude doesn’t get the hint and when I pick up my phone there’s a message saying “why are you so sweet.” Immediate block list.
So the point here is that men need to stop. There is nothing cute about what they do. And even as I wrote this another guy was trying to start. They take the fun out of running an account because they harass, and like a video game once you get rid of one they come back more difficult to handle. And there’s so many of them! They are honestly too much and ruin my day. I bet my blocked list is going to get wildly long by the end of the week.
Anyway, until next time!
O